We've all had those days where nothing seems to be going wrong, or necessarily right for that matter, but the day is normal, good, bad, chaotic, whatever it might be. What I'm about to talk about was sparked by a small event here at work today, on a quite normal day for me when someone was rude for no good reason. I've always believed how much easier life can be at work if you stay professional, fair, take constructive criticism in a positive way and deal it back in the same manner.
I decided to write about this subject not aiming it towards work, but really life in general.
Part of my job deals with supporting a decent sized application which is vital to the business. Every time I fix an issue or help another employee with this application I remain professional, even on my grumpy days, I'll always reply with dignity. Today a user replied back and was completely rude for no good reason, maybe just because he was having a bad day, but just because the stars aligned our paths today he had to push some of his bad fortune my way. It took all I had in me at the time to reply with kindness, and after I did, and every time I do in this situation, I feel like the better person.
This sparked a little light which used to be a big flame inside me. The act of random kindness. In my recent adventure with life to better my self, my surroundings, and the people my life touches, kindness is just about the most important part of this.
"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. "
- Leo Buscaglia
Too many times have I driven past a stranded driver with a flat tire, or too few people trying to push a stalled car across an intersection. My first thought is ALWAYS "Should I stop and help them?" ... ... I continue driving before I know its too late to turn around and display my random act of kindness. I can't tell you how i regret this every time I don't help. And the times I do help I cannot describe just how good it feels, its a rush of adrenalin almost equivalent to the after feeling of an amazing work out. There really is nothing like it.
Smile more, speak kind words, provide a listening ear, and care while doing it. It almost seems too simple doesn't it? Well it really is. :)
"Be the change you want to see in the world"
- Ghandi
We all have bad days, we all have days we are not in the best of moods, and most the time on these days you are not even close to the mood to provide any magnanimous acts. I have found for me to provide a random act of kindness is the quickest cure. If someone is unpleasant to me, I will not play their same game and portray the same attitude back. So I'm going to try my best to spread and live by this -- Practice Random Kindness.
"My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness."
- The Dalai Lama
Kindness is my seed to happiness and success.
I see it... Do you?
-Nathan